Foundation for Lasting Relationship

Leisure time is a precious gift, especially in the later stages of life when one finally learns to slow down and listen to nature. Among the many simple pleasures available, the activity I enjoy most in my leisure time is gardening. It is not just a hobby for me; it is a quiet conversation with the earth, a therapy for the mind, and a source of daily happiness.

As seen in my small garden space, I take pleasure in arranging potted plants, nurturing flowering shrubs, and caring for greenery that transforms an ordinary home into a living sanctuary. Each pot tells a story. Some hold bright crotons with colorful leaves, others shelter hanging plants that sway gently with the breeze, and many carry herbs and ornamentals that bring freshness to the surroundings. I enjoy organizing them neatly, giving each plant enough light, water, and room to grow. Watching a once-weak stem slowly turn into a healthy plant gives me a deep sense of fulfillment.

Gardening teaches patience. In a fast-moving world, plants do not rush. They grow in their own rhythm, reminding me that life too must be lived with balance. When I water them in the morning or evening, I feel calm. The sound of water touching the soil, the smell of wet earth, and the sight of green leaves refresh my spirit. It becomes a form of meditation where worries quietly fade away.

Another reason I enjoy gardening is that it keeps me physically active without pressure. Bending, lifting pots, trimming branches, and cleaning the area give gentle exercise to my body. Unlike strenuous workouts, gardening feels natural and enjoyable. It keeps my mind alert and my hands busy, especially during retirement when meaningful engagement is important.

More than anything, gardening connects me emotionally with nature. After years of travelling and working, I now value stillness. Sitting among my plants, I often reflect on life. Just like people, plants need care, attention, and understanding. If neglected, they weaken; if loved, they flourish. This lesson quietly mirrors human relationships too.

Gardening also allows me to share joy with others. Visitors admire the greenery, and children are curious about the plants. It becomes a small space of inspiration, showing how even limited areas can become beautiful with effort and love.

In my leisure time, many may choose television or rest, but for me, tending my garden is far more rewarding. It gives peace, purpose, and pleasure. Each leaf, flower, and hanging pot adds meaning to my day. Simply put, gardening is not only what I do in my free time — it is where my heart finds rest.

If you like, Saviour, I can also make this more personal, poetic, school-style, or reflective for publication. Just tell me the tone you prefer. 

Saviour Shanthalal Hettiarachchi